Local websites

Bay Area Friends (BAF)
San Diego HELP
LA HELP
Central Cali H Friends
Colorado H Friends
Central Florida H2O Group
Friends on the Beach
ChicagoHClub (Closed)
Indianapolis HELP
DC-H2O Social Group
HELP of Washington (DC) 
Boston Herpes Social and Support Group 
Boston Help Group
Detroit – Metro Detroit HELP
Rochester HELP
Washtenaw County HELP 
MN Family Planning + STD Hotline
Charlotte H friendship and support
Cincinnati HELP (Closed)
Ohio Friends
Pittsburgh United Friends 
DFW Friends
Houston H Friends
DC-H2O Social Group
Seattle H Scene Public Website
HELP of Washington (DC)

Check Meetup groups and Yahoo groups